Those Crazy 80s

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MulletblogHeather mentioned pacman which got me thinking about the 80s in general. Thanks Heather…I think, lol. After my theological analysis of Benedict’s encyclical, I, like Aristophanes of old, needed to lighten things up a bit. Here goes…

Although I "came of age" in the 90s, I certainly consider myself a child of the 80s (quite literally; I was born in 1978). I have always had a soft spot in my heart (and my brain) for 80s culture. Who can forget the days of Ronald Reagan, athletic socks pulled up to your knees, teenage comedies, and heavily synth filled music? I can’t and frequently take trips down memory lane. Here are few of my "favorites" from the 80s. This can change at any time, mainly as I remember more!

TV Shows

1. Facts of Life (I liked Blair the best; David liked Jo. What WAS he thinking?!)
2. Family Ties
3. Different Strokes (ok, also 1970s)
4. Cosby Show
5. Who’s the Boss (Carmel looks a little like Alyssa Milano. Coincidence??)

Movies

1. The Breakfast Club (Nothing captures the 80s like this movie)
2. Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
3. Fletch/Beverly Hills Cop (tie)
4. Back to the Future (the original)/Ghostbusters (tie)
5. Trading Places/Back to School/Coming to America (tie)

Music (not in any particular order; 80s music is my least favorite aspect of the decade)

1. Take Me On (Take On Me) - Aha
2. Life in a Northern Town- Dream Academy
3. Theme from Ghostbusters- Ray Parker, Jr. (I used to go skating to this song, otherwise it’s lousy)
4. Broken Wings- Mr. Mister
5. Total Eclipse of the Heart- Bonnie Tyler

Ok, that’s enough 80s for now. Feel free to let me know your favorites too (if any) in the comments. I took the photo of myself re-living the big hair/head banging 80s days (even though I hate that type of music and never had big hair, it’s an enduring icon. Oh yeah, the hair is a wig; I don’t miss the 80s THAT much.)

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Deus Caritas Est: Part I

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Since anything put out by the Vatican isn’t light reading, I’ve decided to post in parts. This represents Part I. It represents both summary and commentary. The document can be found here.

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I think the key to understanding the new encyclical is in the introduction where the Holy Father states his intentions: "…I wish my new encyclical to speak of the love which God lavishes upon us and which we in turn must share with others." Thus, Pope Benedict is writing about the very basis of Christian ethics: love of God and love of others. However, like in sports, where sometimes it’s vitally important to remind the team of the fundamentals, Benedict’s newest encyclical encourages the faithful to examine and embrace the fundamentals of our Catholic life.

One major reason we need to return to the "fundamentals" as a Church, is because society at large has seriously lost track of them. I think it’s safe to say that from a Christian standpoint, secular culture has no clue about what love is. Benedict sets up this discussion by first addressing the differences among the Greek words for love: eros, philos, and agape. (note: I’m not going to discuss the linguistic merit of this, but prefer like Benedict to stick with the philosophical issues behind the words). Basically the first is erotic love, the second is a love of friendship, and the third is a sacrificial, unselfish love.

Benedict notes that the Church has been accused of being against erotic love. This is a justification that isn’t totally without merit. However, Benedict looks at eros in a typically Catholic way. Eros as practiced in fertility cults, that is as an overpowering of the reason by "divine madness" in order to experience supreme happiness, is naturally to be rejected. The Pope rightly points out that this way of "loving" is in reality exploitation and a degradation of man (and I would add God). However, should we reject eros? According to Benedict, the answer is a resounding "no." Essentially, we need to discipline and purify it. And then, in a Catholic context, eros can be legitimately described as "a certain foretaste of the pinnacle of our existence, of that beatitude for which our whole being yearns." So, what does this Catholic eros look like?

Eros rightly implies a relationship between love and God, since love promises eternity. However, this can’t be merely giving in to instinctual urges. Rather it requires growth in maturity, purification and renunciation. Simply giving in to bodily urges denies the truth that humans are both body and soul. Neither the spirit nor the body can alone love. Since man is one, both dimensions must be truly united in love for him to truly attain "his full stature." It is only in this context of unity that eros is able to "attain its authentic grandeur."

Sadly, our culture at large sees eros only in sexual terms, exalting and isolating the body apart from the soul. Benedict notes that this has turned sex and people into commodities to be exploited. Our bodies and sexual acts are no longer a "vital expression of our whole being" but are seen as purely biological. Benedict sees eros as something that can lead us to closer union with God, but only in "a path of ascent, renunciation, purification, and healing." Many will ask, "what does this look like?" Fortunately, the Holy Father fills us in.

In the biblical book The Song of Songs, the Hebrew word for love first used is dodim which implies an insecure, searching love. It is then replaced by the word ahaba which reflects an unselfish love. The same is true of the Christian life, where love may start as selfish, but must yield to a love that "seeks the good of the beloved" and "is ready, and even willing, for sacrifice." As love grows and is purified, it becomes, both exclusive (to one particular person) and eternal (forever). In this way, the Pope provides us with one of the most beautiful quotes of the whole encyclical:

love is indeed ecstasy, not in the sense of a moment of intoxication, but rather as a journey, an ongoing exodus out of the closed inward-looking self towards its liberation through self-giving and thus towards authentic self-discovery and indeed the discovery of God. (emphasis mine)

This very path was first blazed by our Lord in his Cross and Resurrection.

Benedict next discusses how some have made a sharp distinction between the Christian agape as descending, oblative love and the worldly eros as ascending covetous love. However, he argues that we cannot separate the two loves or we’d risk detaching ourselves from the authentic human existence. Even while eros is still selfishly oriented, it still nonetheless gradually grows and leads to an unselfish love. A Christian can never seek one love or the other because we cannot always simply give, but also must be able to receive love (as a gift).

So, love is essentially a united reality with different dimensions. Although some dimensions may be more evident at different times, to separate them creates an impoverished way of loving. We can’t remove eros because it is a part of human existence. To suppress it completely would be to the detriment of "the whole man." This continues Benedict’s theme of the unity of man and of love.

Love is perfectly shown through God who loves with a personal and elective love. God chose Israel and loves her, but for the eventual healing of all peoples. God’s love is eros and agape. God uses metaphors for erotic love to describe his relationship with his people and yet condemns pagan sexual practices as well. Eros is thus descriptive of God’s love, but only in the purified sense spoken of earlier. God’s eros for humans is also completely agape, something we should no doubt strive towards as humans. It is also an essentially forgiving love, one that culminates in the Incarnation and the Cross. In addition, the Logos, apart from metaphysical images, is a lover with all the passion of true love. However, this eros love is perfectly purified to be one with agape. Our relationship with God is one of love, not by entering into some formless ecstasy, but by entering into a unity with God where we become fully one with God, but remain human and God remains God.

As humans we also feel a need to become one with others, specifically the need for a man and a woman to enter into communion with each other to become complete. Eros as the desire for man to become complete by marriage is inherent in his nature. This love is exclusive and definitive and becomes the "icon of the relationship between God and his people and vice versa."

Benedict asserts that God’s love is best shown through Jesus Christ. The divine eros goes in search of God’s lost sheep. This is a part of God’s very being: his seeking out of his people in love. Only from the pierced side of Jesus Christ who sought his sheep with a total love can the truth of love be contemplated. This is the path our life and love must take. Jesus also gives of himself in the Eucharist. It’s not merely standing in God’s presence, but a complete union with God through the Body and Blood of Jesus. We now can speak of a mysticism grounded in God’s love by coming down to us.

Love of God always leads, however, to love of others. We cannot be unified with Jesus Christ and not seek union with all those receiving his Body and Blood. Communion implies going outside of ourselves. We cannot separate issues of morality and love from the Eucharist. As the Pope so ably puts it, "Worship itself, Eucharistic communion, includes the reality both of being loved and of loving others in turn." We are called to love our neighbor and our neighbor is now defined as everyone! Love of God is so connected to love of others that Jesus identifies himself with those in need. "In the least of the brethren we find Jesus himself, and in Jesus we find God." As Benedict has been expressing all along, love is unified.

Love of God is not merely abstract, but is experienced, especially in his people, the Sacraments, and in a special way, the Eucharist. In this way, love is most certainly NOT a sentiment. Benedict correctly notes that "sentiments come and go." Love is not temporary, but a process that is never finished, one that engages the whole man, including our will and intellect. Love is not something we merely should do to be obedient, but one that comes from our own will, based on the present love of God. In fact, we cannot fully love our neighbor without first encountering God intimately. This allows us to see others from the perspective, not of ourselves, but of Jesus. This love goes beyond a pious love because we should love, but should become a real love of others grounded in a real love for God. And this love needs the encounter with the Eucharistic Lord to truly branch out to love of neighbor.

I will comment on the rest later, but want to make a few points. Benedict has started his papacy on a strong note with this encyclical. I have no doubt that most who read it will find it to be edifying in many ways. The Catholic Church is often accused by many people of simply telling the faithful what not to do. While the Church certainly needs to emphasize right and wrong in a negative sense, I think this encyclical goes a long way in explaining the Catholic Church’s positive theology of love, morality, and justice. This encyclical reaffirms Catholic teaching that all love, whether of God, spouse, or neighbor is unified and grounded in the "always seeking" love of God.

Crossposted to Per Christum

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The Pope’s New Encyclical

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I have started reading the Pope’s new encyclical Deus Caritas Est. I will give my thoughts on it when I’m finished. As with any writing coming from the Vatican, especially by one so theologically astute as Benedict XVI, it may take awhile to read carefully. So far think that the encyclical is a an excellent teaching on love, a theme which is often completely twisted in culture and sometimes the Church.

Update for those coming via an aggregator: My thoughts (part I) are here.

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From My Yard, II

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This one looks like the deer is sticking its tongue out at me! I can’t think of anything else it could be.

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Photo by Jonathan Bennett
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From My Yard

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One of the many reasons I enjoy living in the country…

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Photo by Jonathan Bennett (taken through my window)

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The Continuing Slaughter…

Family, Life, and the Body

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Today is the anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the decision that legalized abortion. Since then, over 40 million babies have been killed. The numbers are staggering, but on a more personal note, how many great leaders, scientists, saints, actors, sports heroes, family members and friends were never even given a chance because of our country’s sinfulness? Although the courts and many people see it as a "choice," it really is a life. No euphemism can hide that. Our society has made a terrible mistake, one that someday we may have to pay dearly for. Let us all pray for an end to the evils of abortion.

To find out where Christian churches stand on abortion, go here. Some people may be unpleasantly surprised (and apalled).

Photo (click on it to see what it says) from the Sorrowful Mother Shrine, Bellevue, OH (taken by Jonathan or David Bennett, I can’t remember!)

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Skiing in Dubai?

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Yep, that’s right, now people can go skiing in the mostly desert country of the United Arab Emirates. Although this enterprise brings back memories of the Jamaican Bobsled team, I think it more shows that with money and technology people are no longer as limited by geography like in the past. Visit the Ski Dubai website and have a look. The whole setup is quite fascinating and even includes Breakfast with Santa!

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The Irishman Within?

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I am not Irish. As far as I know my ancestry is Lithuanian, English, French, and German. I’m sure there’s a bit more thrown in there, but I can’t say that I have any Irish in me.  I kind of wish I did. You know the bit about saving civilization and all.

However, that hasn’t stopped me from taking an incredible interest in Irish music as of late. I have listed some of my favorite songs with select lyrics. If anyone has any good suggestions for other songs, I’d appreciate it (N.B. I know all these songs aren’t strictly Irish).

Red is the Rose:

Red is the rose that in yonder garden grows
Fair is the lily of the valley
Clear is the water that flows from the Boyne
But my love is fairer than any.

I like the versions by the Chieftains, Makem and Clancy, and Craic Wisely.

Willie McBride:

Ah the sun’s shining now on these green fields of France
The warm wind blows gently and the red poppies dance
The trenches have vanished under the plow
No gas and no barbed wire; no guns firing now
But here in the graveyard it’s still No-Man’s Land
The countless white crosses in mute witness stand
To Man’s blind indifference to his fellow-man
To a whole generation who were butchered and damned

The only version I have is by Makem and Clancy.

Bread and Fishes:

As I went a walkin’ one mornin’ in spring
I met with some travelers in an old country lane
One was an old man, the second a maid,
And the third was a young boy who smiled as he said:
"We’ve the wind in the willows,
And the birds in the sky,
We’ve a bright sun to warm us,
Where ever we lie
We have bread and fishes and a jug of red wine
To share on our journey with all of mankind"

Once again, I have the Makem and Clancy version. Anyone know who these three figures are? I do actually, but I want to see if my readers can pick it up!

Wild Mountain Thyme:

Oh, the summertime’s a comin’,
And the trees are sweetly bloomin’,
And the wild mountain thyme
Grows around the purple heather
Will you go, lassie, go?
And we’ll all go together
To pick wild mountain thyme
All around the blooming heather.
Will you go, lassie, go?

I have the versions by the Byrds and the Chieftains.

Raglan Road:

On Raglan Road on an autumn day,
I saw her first and knew
That her dark hair would weave a snare
That I may one day rue.
I saw the danger and I passed
Along the enchanted way.
And I said let grief be a falling leaf
At the dawning of the day.

Once again, I have this song by the Chieftains, both a recorded and a live version.

Carrickfergus:

I wished I had you in Carrickfergus,
Only for nights in Ballygrand,
I would swim over the deepest ocean,
The deepest ocean to be by your side.
But the sea is wide and I can’t swim over
And neither have I wings to fly.
I wish I could find me a handy boatman
To ferry me over to my love and die.
My childhood days bring back sad reflections
Of happy days so long ago.
My boyhood friends and my own relations.
Have all passed on like the melting snow.
So I’ll spend my days in endless roving,
Soft is the grass and my bed is free.
Oh to be home now in Carrickfergus,
On the long road down to the salty sea…

Some Irish songs can be somewhat dark and this is a fine example. I have always liked darker songs, especially ones that touch on death. I don’t know why. Once again, I like the version by the Chieftains.


Slan go foill!
(any takers on the meaning of this?)

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The Tide is Turning

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Dave Hartline, a fellow Ohioan, at The Catholic Report has written a great 2 part (so far) essay on the emerging trends in Catholicism. Basically, he notes that the high tide of dissent has thankfully begun to end. I’m honored that he considers me a modern day defender of the Church too. Check them out:

The Tide Is Turning Towards Catholicism
How The Tide Is Turning Towards Catholicism (The New Defenders Of The Church, The Laity) Part II 

I would highly recommend adding The Catholic Report to your bookmarks if you are interested in important Catholic news from one source. His original pieces are excellent too. I read it daily!

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Unique Mass Music

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I am normally a young fogey when it comes to the mass and liturgical music and architecture. So, it surprised me when I listened to the Craig Furkas CD "Mass." It’s a classical, somewhat electronic musical interpretation of the mass. Some of it is really not my style I admit, but a lot of it really touched me. His takes on the Kyrie and the Pange Lingua are awesome. I would point you somewhere to listen, but it appears his CDs are out of print. I guess you’ll just have to sign up for Yahoo! Music.

Update: You can get "Mass" and his other CDs here. I’d recommend getting "Mass" at the very least. Thanks to Craig Furkas for pointing me to a place to buy his CDs.

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My Visit to the Shrine of the Holy Relics

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Today was a beautiful day for a pilgrimage! It was a littleMaryneat01blog
cold, but the sun was shining and not a cloud or snowflake in sight! David, Jennifer, and I left in the morning and headed towards Maria Stein, Ohio. I only wish Carmel could’ve been there. The town’s name means "Mary’s Rock." As always we stopped at Speedway for coffee (sorry to disappoint Fr. David!). The trip took around 2.5 hours, but seemed to go quickly. The terrain in Northwestern Ohio is very flat, but quite scenic.

At around 1:00pm we arrived at The Shrine of the Holy Relics, a convent, shrine, and museum run by the Sisters of the Precious Blood. The first thing we did was to go to the bookstore. I didn’t buy a whole lot, except the obligatory holy water container, a few holy cards, a small book, and a couple of gifts I won’t reveal here because they will be going to a reader! After that, we looked around the beautiful grounds. The setting was rural and idyllic, especially the courtyard. As someone who prefers country life to city life, I would enjoy praying here on a regular basis!

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We then went inside since it was too cold to linger outdoors and visited the museum. I really enjoyed learning about the history of the Order in Maria Stein. It was fascinating to see the expressions of the Catholic Faith in the past too (like holy cards before the invention of plastic). They also had a really cool statue of Mary unlike any other I’ve seen before (see photo).

Next we moved to the chapel, which seems to be the main attraction. The first chapel is a beautifully designed space with the Blessed Sacrament. It leads into the chapel that holds the relics. Entering there was quite a shock. I have never seen so many relics in one place. I would estimate there were nearly 1,000 individual relics that included hundreds of different Saints and Jesus (Go here to see all the Saints included in their collection). Fortunately they hadStthomasblog
them laid out in an easy to use system. I looked for St. Justin, my patron, as well as other Saints important to me and my loved ones: Catherine of Siena, Peregrine, Jerome, Maria Goretti, and Thomas Aquinas. They had complete bones on display from (I believe, but could be wrong; corrections welcome) St. Concordia. They also had a beautiful wax figure that contained the remains of St. Victoria (see photo).

Naturally we were very happy to be in this place. My feeling was a mix of awe and excitement. I was looking around everywhere trying to find those Saints who had a special impact in my life. We prayed a litany of the Saints and asked our patrons to intercede for us. It was such a wonderful experience to be in the presence of the relics of so many heroes for Christ.

If you’re ever in the vicinity of Maria Stein, Ohio (it’s near Dayton and Lima), this is a great place to visit.

Images: L- outdoor view of the shrine; St. Victoria R- Unique statue of Mary; relic of St. Thomas Aquinas (all photos taken by Jonathan Bennett; beauty provided by the Sisters of the Precious Blood and the Saints themselves)

Update: David has posted his thoughts and photos

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Shrine Today

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Today I am traveling to yet another shrine (it was a part of my New Year’s resolution!), The Shrine of the Holy Relics in Maria Stein, Ohio. It’s one of those places that is hard to get there from here, but I’m excited. As always, I’ll take a bunch of photos and tell all about it. Please pray as I go on this pilgrimage. I will remember the intentions of my readers while I’m there.

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My Face

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Anastasia has gotten me hooked on My Heritage: Face Recognition website. Right now it just tells you which celebrity you look like. One of my pictures came back as Gene Kelly and I must admit, I can see it a little:

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On another note, I subscribed to Yahoo! Music and love it. I’ve been especially interested in some Irish stuff, primarily Tommy Makem. I’m not Irish in any way, but hey I look like Gene Kelly!

Image of Kelly from www.princessmonkey.com/gene/

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No Man Is an Island

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Today, I attended the funeral for a man I didn’t even know. He was the father of a student at my school as well as a leader in the school and community. Even though I didn’t know him, I still felt a deep sense of sadness at his passing. The words of John Donne came to mind:

No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less… any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.

Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and let light perpetual shine upon him. May he rest in peace.

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Goodbye Christmas…Until Next Year

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For those unfamiliar with the Catholic season of Christmastide, it begins on Christmas Day and ends the day after the Baptism of our Lord. Normally the feast of the Baptism of our Lord is the Sunday after the Epiphany. However since the Epiphany in most Catholic countries is transferred to a Sunday, the celebration of the Baptism of Our Lord can vary. This year, at least in the USA, it falls on a Monday: January 9th (tomorrow). This means that tomorrow is the last day of the Christmas season. Tuesday (or perhaps Monday evening) we start Ordinary Time. For more information on this and other facts about the Catholic Church calendar, I invite you to visit a webpage I co-author, ChurchYear.Net.

We are lucky as Catholics (along with other liturgical Christians) to get such a long time for Christmas. When I was evangelical Protestant there was always a post-Christmas letdown on December 26th, and the 12 days and Christmastide have certainly cured that. However, there is nonetheless some sadness as I ponder the nearing end of the Christmas season. I will miss the festivity, the lights, the decorations, the tree, the carols, the unique antiphons in the daily office, my Christmas candles, my Christmas coffee creamers and coffees (no joke!), and other things. I just really enjoy Christmas and it’s sad to have to leave it behind. However, I’m not leaving the Incarnation behind,Candle1blog
so I should perhaps focus on that.

However, in some ways it’s good the Christmas season is ending. From a secular standpoint, leaving all the Christmas accessories up any longer would make them lose their special quality. And our bodies are not meant for unlimited festivity as my holiday weight gain can attest! Naturally, the end of the Christmas seasons means we’re closer to spring and summer, which for someone living in the USA snowbelt is good news. Liturgically, we need more than Christmas and the end of Christmas means we’re that much closer to Lent. A non-Catholic, but interested, friend of mine was shocked to hear that I look forward to Lent! Call me a Catholic nerd I guess.

On Tuesday I’ll take down my Nativity and my tree and put away all of my decorations. Tonight and tomorrow I’ll make a concerted effort to enjoy them before I pack them up. But, they’ll be out next year. And the way time goes, it’ll be Christmas before we all know it.

Happy Christmastide and a blessed Ordinary Time!

Photos are of my tree and window candle (I love window candles, especially colored ones. You can’t hardly tell but this one is blue)

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