Telling the Parents
Catholic Church, My Journey August 12th, 2004Last night I finally got the courage to tell my dad about my decision to become a Catholic. I had told my mom and my grandma a week earlier. They are all evangelical, but also pretty open. Still, it was a difficult (but necessary) thing to do. All of them seemed pretty shocked. Looking back I should’ve been more open about where my journey was taking me. I assumed that they understood that as an Anglican I was close to Catholicism anyway. I guess they weren’t aware of how close I actually was. They definitely weren’t aware of how Catholic my theological and social thought had become in the last 6 months. Their response was generally quite supportive, but with some reservations (which from their vantage point I wholly understand). But, taking the honest, direct approach allowed me to clear the air on the whole religion issue, which I think will allow us to be more honest about it in the future. I love and trust my family and looking back alot of my fear was unwarranted. Considering nearly every one of my Christian friends growing up no longer attends any church, I think they’re happy I’m somewhere doing my best to discern God’s will.
August 14th, 2004 at 9:08 am
Hey Jonathan — my prayers are with you today! Are your parents coming? Charles
August 14th, 2004 at 9:53 am
Charles,
We decided it was best at this time not to bring the whole issue of confirmation/reception up (especially regarding confirmation, which was a surprise to us). Mom knows about reception. Dad doesn’t at this point. They both know we are firmly on the path to the Catholic Church. Our reception/confirmation are both private services, so we will tell them we joined the Church when the time is right.