lifou2I had to start with the biggie, a common charge: Catholics worship the Blessed Virgin Mary. And of course, we all know that worship is due to God alone! Catholics know that too and we emphatically do not worship Mary. The catechism says:

“This very special devotion [to Mary]…differs essentially from the adoration given to the Incarnate Word and equally to the Father and the Holy Spirit, and greatly fosters this adoration” (Catechism of the Catholic Church #971, emphasis mine).

So, we greatly honor the Blessed Virgin Mary but do not worship her. Adoration is due to God alone, but Mary may be honored. And, as the Mother of the Word Incarnate, she is accorded the highest honor due a creature. Yet, she is still a creature and cannot be worshipped as the Holy Trinity is worshipped. It seems like a fine line to many people, but it’s still a line the Church draws. I see many Protestant men and women who are totally devoted to their husbands or wives. Does this detract from their worship of God? It shouldn’t! In fact, many married people find that the deeper the devotion and unconditional love they give to their spouse, the deeper the love and adoration they develop for the Church’s Spouse. As the Church document Behold Your Mother states: “the more we know and love Mary, the more surely will we know and love Jesus and understand His mission in the world.”

Note: The photo is of an old church in Lifou, Loyalty islands, New Caledonia